Mindset Monday - Choose You

She is heartbroken... deep pain and sadness written all over her face... "I have never denied that man anything..." she quietly whispered...devastated and feeling broken over finding out about her partner's infidelities...

"I would love to do it... just not sure I can afford it... It is a lot of money, ...." I know.. It would make a difference." She is beautiful, bright and true hearted held back with the scarcity conversations...

"Studio room is fine for me... I do not need more... It is fine..." Life has led her from living in a beautiful spacious custom built home to being a refugee.. to a small studio room with not enough space to welcome new people in her life...

"You are incredibly strong"... he said as he was leaving... She looked at him.. FINALLY deeply aware she held herself small in this connection with him. He was not the one to hold her safe. He closed the door and tears rolled down her face...

Real women... real stories... hearts broken and living with different fears...slowly learning how to self-love and be their own voice.

Choosing you is all about making conscious effort to take care of your mind, body, spirit, finances, health, boundaries... Choosing you is pausing... taking a moment to reflect and make sure choices being made are aligned with what serves you and your vision...and not selling yourself or your feelings short at any level. Choosing you comes with a courageous inner dialogue, letting go of "what will they say" and closing the doors to people or situations that no longer serve you. Choosing you is about making that first step and facing the fear head on...

Whatever your circumstances or your story may be...ALWAYS "CHOOSE YOU"...Be kind, gentle and your own cheerleader. You are worth it...